My world Is Different From Yours--I Think

My world is differeent from yours because I see the world differently
from the way you see the same world.
I was 16 before I learned that not everyone walks around composing
music in their head most of the time. You know, how you experience the
world is how you assume everyone else experiences the world. The thing
is we each see through a difference set of blinders and we each wear
different lenses. If I see through purple lenses and you see through
red ones then you cannot see anything red and I cannot see anything
purple. PLUS everything I do see has a purple tint while everything you
see has a red tint.
If my blinders limit my field of vision to events and experiences that
make me a victim than I can only see events and experiences that make
me a victim. Oh my gosh! How can I become aware of my blinders and
filters? I learn how my mind works and how my brain works so I can see
how I create my blinders and filters. Actually simply looking at who and
what is in your world, how you live moment to moment will tell you your filters.
Observe!
What if I do not care how my mind or brain work? Well, I simply focus
on how I want my life to look. The bottomline is the "why" does not
matter. All that maters is how I live each moment. And how I live each
moment is my choice when I have awareness of how I can create my choice
consciously instead of automatically. Fact is, either I run my life or I allow
others to run my life.
When I live on automatic and my life is not working as I want it to how
in the world can I expect anything to be different for me? Consider
that you and your teen live on automatic. what can you do to change
that way of being in the world?